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This website meant to help people understand that it is nice to meet you and it is better than not. Or, taking that approach to people is better than not. As cities get crowded, many issues with how we interact are obviously happening right in front of us and can be safe topics like the weather. People know.  

My interest? We got along and the girls got in trouble. The guys too. Now we know more and generally agree and can get out. That's it. That's enough eh? 

In the summer of 2011, I saw men changing "What are you looking at?" into "Why aren't you looking at me?" and wanting attention like hyper-aggressive girls. Many effeminately copy body language, walk forcefully close to and pester guys. They are not gay or straight. They are needy and creepy. Ugh.

As Senior Vice President and General Counsel for Chick Incorporated I report directly to The Bored. Men: Don't compete. Women want to compete for us.

Then I saw men following women for blocks or stalking them on purpose. I spoke or yelled to get them to stop. Nearly everyone else started casually saying hello. So, I started explaining things in the third person to everyone, but no one in particular. Their positive reactions are how people show how they feel.

South Park's "Faith Hilling" show (Seas. 16, Ep. 3) is good satire on stupid memes, like men scratching faces, heads, butts and more trying to get looked at.

Solution

Most neo-stalkers follow girls because they want to get looked at like girls. I know because 99.999% of the time when I look at a girl instead of her stalker, he tries to flirt with me, fails, feels embarrassed and leaves. Women can slow down, relax, stop, check their purse, stare at stuff and more to get free too.

Case Study: Eaton Centre, Toronto, Sat, 14/Apr/12, from 2 - 7 pm, mostly silent, looking at to free girls, people seeing and saying hello, couples talking.

People can help women stalked with good attention and tell men to stop wasting time doing stupid creepy things like walking close, messing with people and walking away fast and guilty. Men should stop on behalf of people they know harassed by other men acting the same and feeling rejected and miserable. 

Case Study: The Great Hall, Toronto, Fri, 23/Mar/12, live music, laptop-bag over butt attacked by creepy guys, protected by brave Jaeger girls, out a lot.

Take this stuff seriously on your own and with others, or get in touch at 647.781.1580 or vijay.sarma@gmail.com so I can help you figure things out. Many insecure men show they appreciate advice from confident ones and they can tell each other to knock it off. As we can see: this stuff is really embarrassing.  

Case Study: Music will help us if people take it seriously and use the work of favorites like Bob Marley or Coldplay as personal trainers to re-value people.

Conclusion

Needy-creepy guys destroy themselves by bothering people and failing to get treated affectionately. They get bitter, not better. It is insane. It has to stop. Thousands of men now accept that exchanging a little respect and keeping it is better than being nervous, needy and creepy. Then we can all relax. 

Men should not care much about the looks they get from men unless they are threatened or their time is wasted. Straight up. No creepy closeness either. 

Based on their positive response, most people agree with these publicly stated problems, reactions and solutions. People believe "It Is Nice To Meet You" and that it is better than not. Thousands have helped conduct successful social physics experiments. This even happens when I am silent for good reasons.  

Real gay guys don't act like nervous, needy, creepy and confused straight guys or they could not hang out in the same bar. Nobody likes this creepy crap. 

Men and women can figure out how to respect, appreciate and empower each other fast. Sometimes it's fun, and sometimes it's polichicks, but women who don't want to hit or yell at men will often flirt with me to express their approval of these ideas. Over 8 months this was all confirmed. Relax and pass it on.

Men can let their girls be women and show-off a bit. Women can let their guys be men and say okay honey that's enough let's go. We can laugh about it. 

Epilogue

While some do, I don't find this stuff difficult to talk about and have fun with it, so get in touch about this or for any reason. People just need ways to deal with this stupid "dirty little secret" nonsense destroying many men. I used to laugh at creepy guys. Then they started attacking girls. That was too much.

These ideas have been publicly vetted by at least a million people each in two different cities and thousands in small towns to ensure they are correct. 

Now, if men and women care about men and women, the following should happen. Men should stop trying to act like needy, creepy, clumsy, harassing and pathetically-ugly girls. Women should respect men treating them more carefully and have fun with them. People should confidently empower each other.

When 90% of communication is non-verbal and people pass by many people daily, their interactions can be empowering, disempowering, or useless.

All it takes is men politely and briefly acknowledging others and staying confidently busy. Women can flirt knowing men will go back to business and quickly compete for their attention. Men should stop turning into needy and creepy weirdos. If it needs to be said, it was. If we need to know how we feel, we do. 

Women can get a man's attention like in a beer commercial and do cool stuff with speeds, angles, reflections, spaces, spitefully hot intensity and more.

Please keep in mind that this information may help improve confidence and happiness where you live.

It Is Nice To Meet You. And It Is Better Than Not.

Cheers,

Vij

Questions?
Vijay Sarma
647.781.1580
vijay.sarma@gmail.com


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